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After class, Ding Qi walked out of the west gate and went to the Mental Health Center of Jinghu University Affiliated Hospital. At 4:20 this afternoon, the seeker has already made an appointment for psychological consultation. Thinking of the somewhat paranoid and difficult help-seeker, Ding Qi couldn’t help but smile. He immediately realized that his mentality was wrong, adjusted his breathing and made some self-adjustment.
Qualified psychologists should have professional psychological qualities, have enough patience and a sincere attitude to accept help seekers, if they have a repulsive mentality, how can they avoid the help seekers’ resistance during the consultation process? Woolen cloth?
At this moment, there was a nice female voice behind the side: “Teacher Xiaoding, what a coincidence! Where are you going?” Turning around, it was Meng Hui who had just answered the question in class. language.
Outside the west gate of the school is the delivery point of major express companies. There are also many food stalls and several express hotels that mainly operate hourly rooms. Many students come here after class. But looking at Meng Huiyu’s appearance, it’s obviously not a coincidence. Although she has slowed down at this moment, her breathing is still a bit short, and her face is obviously showing signs of rising body temperature. Even if she didn’t trot all the way just now, she hurried to catch up for a while. .
Although Ding Qi could see it, he didn’t want to break it. He smiled and replied: “It’s a coincidence, you came out to pick up the courier? I went to the mental health center, and there is an appointment in the afternoon.”
Meng Hui said: “Ms. Xiaoding’s lectures are really good, the girls in our dormitory love to listen! And…how tall are you?”
This question is too abrupt. The preface and the subsequent words lack a logical connection and are not close at all, but it can not be said that her thinking is disorganized or that she is diagnosed as “disruptive thinking”. It can only show that she was pretending to be calm on the surface, but in fact she was very nervous, and asked a very interesting topic, and blurted out inadvertently.
Ding Qi replied unhurriedly: “It’s not too high, only 1.78 meters.”
“He is a very standard man.” Meng Huiyu adjusted his stride as much as possible, walking side by side with Ding Qi, and said in a shy tone: “There are several girls in our dormitory who are very interested in you. I want to know Do you have a girlfriend!”
Ding Qi laughed: “Of course she did. She was in the first year of her master’s degree at Peking University. We plan to get married next year.” In fact, he only needs to answer “Yes”, but he deliberately said a few more words.
Meng Huiyu was concealing some emotions, and his smile was a little unnatural and said: “Oh, then congratulations to Teacher Xiaoding!…You are still a psychiatrist in the school hospital, so talented!”
Ding Qi: “To be precise, it is a psychological counselor. The relationship between us and the counselee is the relationship between the seeker and the person sought, not the relationship between the doctor and the patient.” This is a saying he often says in his daily work. .
Meng Huiyu seemed to tentatively said: “I usually have a lot of troubles. I have many problems and I need to find someone to enlighten me. Can I also go to register for an appointment and consult with Teacher Xiaoding?”
Ding Qiyu is mild, and try to professionally say: “In fact, even if you need to do psychological counseling, I am not a suitable counselor, because I am already your teacher. Psychological counseling avoids dual identities. The counselor should Is someone who has no other relationship with you.”
Meng Hui said and smiled: “I just made a joke with Teacher Xiaoding. You charge 600 at a time. Students like me can’t afford it.”
Ding Qi also laughed: “The school also has a psychological counseling teacher, and the psychological counseling and adjustment for students is almost free.”
Meng Hui said: “But teacher Xiaoding, why are you not?”
Ding Qi turned off the topic and said in the tone of the lecture: “Psychological counseling is not comfort or education guidance. It is the application of psychological techniques to help the seeker solve psychological problems.
A normal person who is mentally and physically healthy, as long as he has a correct understanding and response to reality, has a reasonable ability to adapt and transform to the environment, and has a stable and healthy personality, he can usually adjust himself when encountering problems. This is also a normal human ability, otherwise, wouldn’t the world be messed up a long time ago? “
It is very common for people to have psychological problems, and they do not always need psychological counseling. On the other hand, in fact, everyone has confusion and conflicts in their hearts, but this does not mean that there are psychological problems. People are usually able to adjust and adjust themselves, right?
Meng Huiyu lowered his head slightly and said, “That’s right. In fact, most things are adjusted by yourself. Teacher Xiaoding charges 600 for one interview. What’s the matter like me? If you can adjust your mentality by yourself, how much money is saved?”
Ding Qi also laughed: “That saves a lot! Healthy physiology and psychology are actually a person’s greatest wealth. This sentence has always been good…. The express delivery order has arrived, you can get the express delivery. “
Of course, Meng Huiyu didn’t come to pick up the courier, but at this moment he had to stop and beckoned in a very cute and cute look: “Goodbye, Teacher Xiaoding!” Seeing Ding Qi walking away With a smile, but deep in his eyes can’t say whether it is disappointment or other emotions.
Ding Qi, who has gone away, of course knows that this sophomore girl has a good impression of him or said he likes him. This situation itself is normal, but now that he is aware of it, he will not encourage such emotions, and should try to avoid giving the other party ambiguous hints.
Actually, one can detect a clue from the name “Teacher Xiaoding” in the other party’s private occasions. This is a subconscious emphasis on deliberately emphasizing that the age gap between the two parties is not large, and usually it should be called Teacher Ding.
Ding Qi is still under 26 years old. He is not only a PhD student, a university lecturer, and a psychologist, but also a psychiatrist. When he was studying for a master’s degree, his professional direction was mental health, and his tutor was also Liu Feng.
Strictly speaking, psychological counselors and psychiatrists are two different professions, but their professional fields overlap and overlap. However, in actual practice, there are inevitably overlapping identities. Many psychologists are born as psychiatrists, or are still psychiatrists like Ding Qi.
Ding Qi’s third-year undergraduate clinical internship started in the psychiatric department of the school’s affiliated hospital. When he graduated from the university, the hospital established a mental health center based on the original psychiatric department. His own choice of career is a psychological counselor, and his mentor Liu Feng also supports this decision.
The medical institution that was originally independent from the school hospital department was not called a “psychiatric treatment center” but a “mental health center” because it didn’t want people to suffer from “neuropathy” or “mental illness”. Lenovo. Although the “center” also treats neurotic patients and patients with mental traits, the new direction of business development is psychotherapy and psychological counseling, mainly for the normal population.
This is a new profession that sounds very “fashionable” or “fashionable”, and is more in line with the needs of contemporary society. Psychological counselors serve a wider range of clients than psychiatrists, and their social image and impression are much better. As for the current income, it is not easy to say.
Although Ding Qi holds three positions, he only gets a salary, which is the salary of a lecturer at Jinghu University. His personnel and labor relations are also at Jinghu University. As for the doctors and psychoanalysts in the school-affiliated hospitals, they only receive performance bonuses, which are usually provided every month, and there is a payment at the end of the year.
This is not only the case of Ding Qi alone, as long as the personnel relations of his colleagues belong to the faculty and staff of Jinghu University, they are almost the same.
More than three years ago, when Ding Qi had just graduated from undergraduate and stayed as a teaching assistant, he had already obtained the third-level consultant qualification, and he was also an assistant physician in the psychiatric department of the school hospital. I remember that every month After deducting the seven or eighty-eight expenses from his income, he received only two thousand.
Don’t feel that the treatment is not good. Some people are willing to exchange positions with Ding Qi. The undergraduate students at that time envied him because there are many hidden benefits. Relying on the platform of Jinghu University and within the unique system of universities, obtaining on-the-job academic qualifications, various titles and qualifications, conducting research, and producing results have advantages that outside units can’t compare.
At that time, he had just met his girlfriend Jia Jia, who was still in the second year of undergraduate degree. The two of them ate, went shopping, did some shopping, and went out to play. Of course, Ding Qi paid the bill, almost the Moonlight clan. Fortunately, the school gave Ding Qi a dormitory, and he can also eat the staff canteen. He didn’t have much expense himself.
It took Ding Qi two and a half years to get a master’s degree, and then went on to pursue an on-the-job Ph.D. tutor still Liu Feng. About three months ago, Ding Qi was promoted from a teaching assistant to a lecturer. About two months ago, Ding Qi obtained the qualification of a second-level psychological counselor.
When Ding Qi started his career three years ago, Ding Qi’s consultation fee was 300 per session, which is almost equivalent to the fee of a fitness coach for each private lesson. His job was to help others maintain their mental health. Just two months ago, his charge had just risen to 600 each time. Meng Huiyu had such a clear understanding, he must have checked his situation on the website of the Mental Health Center.
Some people will definitely think that the income of psychological counselors mainly comes from the commission of counseling fees, and many psychological counseling organizations do calculate this way. However, the performance bonus of the mental health center of the school affiliated hospital does not seem to be calculated based on the commission of the consultation fee. Ding Qi has never figured out how it is paid, and he has no need to ask.
Now, including the salary of the university lecturer and the performance bonus of the Mental Health Center, he has already got 6,000 per month, which is not yet considered a year-end bonus. In Jinghu City, a second-tier city in the country and a first-tier city in the province, although it is not too much, it is not too small for Ding Qi. The important thing is that the trend has been steadily increasing.
Just over three years after graduating from a bachelor degree, Ding Qi’s life path can be described as one step at a time. Whether in life or career plan, the future is bright, the future is full of bright, and it seems to be operating in a planned ideal state, like a clock. Precision gears and racks. Of course, all of this has nothing to do with the appreciation and support of the tutor Liu Feng, and his girlfriend Jiajia is the daughter of the tutor Liu Feng.
On the other hand, Ding Qi also believes that this is the reason why he is good enough and hardworking. He will continue to work hard to make every success of life step on precise steps. Since last year, Ding Qi has been saving money consciously. Even if his living expenses are sufficient, he must make preparations for the future.
He already got his driver’s license when he was undergraduate, but he hasn’t bought a car because he won’t need it for the time being, but it will be needed sooner or later, and more importantly, buy a house. With his current income, it may be more difficult to buy a decent house near Jinghu University, but Ding Qi believes that he can do it in a few years, and he does not need to reach out for help.
This is a kind of self-confidence. People’s judgment of economic conditions and living standards cannot only focus on the current income, but also includes reasonable growth expectations in the future. Of course, Professor Liu Feng’s daughter Jiajia does not lack a house, but Ding Qi intends to buy a set of her own, which may require part of the mortgage loan. It is best to get it two years later, when Jiajia graduates with a master’s degree.
The sun is shining and cheerful, Ding Qi walked into the Mental Health Center of Jinghu University Affiliated Hospital, nodded to the passing colleagues with a humble smile, and started another job.